1. Making the Transition

    Written by Randi on July 18th, 2014 at 2:55 PM // Category: Relationships

    I love my siblings. It’s more than a normal Big Sister, Little Brother/Sister thing. I was a lot closer to Breya than I was Zack. I was 10 when Zack was born. I was 14, with Breya and from the moment she came into the world, I treated her like my kid. Regardless, I am close to both of them. My brother, doesn’t seem too interested in spending time with either of them. I don’t know what it is, exactly, but it makes me sad for them. If I’m being honest with myself, I am what my aunt *was* to us and my brother is what my uncle was. The only reason we ever saw our uncle was because he lived with our aunt. That makes me feel even worse because I couldn’t tell you what my uncle is up to now. I haven’t seen/talked to him in years. We (I mean the rest of my family excluding my brother) do not talk to my aunt anymore either but that’s because she chose her husband over her niece and nephew. That won’t happen with me. Regardless, that isn’t what this is about.

    Zack was my annoying little brother for years. He was loud, obnoxious, and energetic. Miraculously, he outgrew that and Zack and I have so much in common now. He’s laid back, funny, and mature for his age. I never thought I’d be able to say this (because he’s a boy and I didn’t think it could happen) but we can talk to each other. At least, I can. I hope he feels the same with me. He’s a joy to have around. 

    Breya was my adorable baby. There were many times where she preferred me over our mom. She was always following me around and I loved it. There were hugs and kisses a plenty. Somewhere along the road, she stopped being my adorable little sister and turned into a pain in the ass. Don’t get me wrong, I love her and I think that’s why it’s so hard for me to grasp. She has her moments still of wanting to cuddle with me, she comes and hugs me and tells me she loves me, but it seems like the next minute I’m being verbally assaulted or disrespected. And I think, maybe it’s my fault. I’ve treated her all these years like she was my kid. That’s not the case anymore because I don’t live with her. Maybe I forgot to transition from parent to sister. She didn’t seem to have that problem but she’s reminded daily whereas I only am when she’s here.

    I get her giving my mom this attitude and sass. I don’t condone it but it makes sense. I did the same thing (although I waited until my mom left the room to mutter insults under my breath and Breya just blurts it out). This just isn’t what I pictured. I always thought I would be the one Breya came to. My mom and I talked in great lengths about it. I have the permission to keep Breya’s secrets (as long as they didn’t warrant intervention) and help her where needed (advice, birth control when the time came, etc). If she views me as a parent, that’s not going to happen. She’s not going to come to me with anything if she fears being punished or scolded by me.

    The thing is, I don’t know how to fix it. When she comes over to my house, I have to parent. I’m in charge. When she’s here, it’s like I never left. I can’t let her get away with murder, either, because that makes it more difficult on my mom. I have to find a happy medium.

    Maybe it’s time, I sit them both down separately. I’ve been meaning to do it for a while now. I want them both to know that I’m here for them to talk to. Zack is getting up to that age and I want him to know that if he needs anything or has any questions, that he can come to me. If he can’t for whatever reason, he has Andrew or my brother (if he can ever get a hold of him) to talk to. Both of them know, my mom and I talk constantly and we tell each other everything. I want them both to know that if they need me to keep quiet about something, all they have to do is say so. Breya may need a bit extra to help her understand our relationship and how I’ve made some mistakes but I hope to rectify them and be there for her, not as a parent, but as her sister and her friend.

  2. Getting It Together

    Written by Randi on July 13th, 2014 at 3:49 AM // Category: Blogging

    Although I didn’t post it, I started a to do list entry on Friday of things I hoped to accomplish before the end of the weekend. Surprisingly, I completed well over 75% of it.

    I finally got Last.fm working on my PC 1. I was also able to grab new songs, even though they haven’t technically been added to my computer yet. Once I do that, I can fix/make more ringtones.

    Of course, one of the biggest things I *didn’t* complete was cleaning my house. I did most of it, I swear, but I also didn’t get too far into tearing it up to slowly put it back together again. I reallllly need to organize. I did do my desk, though! It looks much better and gives me that extra motivation needed to get things done. I’m slowly getting it together.

    Since I did so well, I want to do a little blog tidying which as always, includes a redesign. I don’t know what I’m aiming for just yet. It will, of course, be added to my portfolio site 2.

    Of course, the creative bug has hit me and I’m too pooped to actually get started on it. I hope the mood is still there tomorrow. It’s certainly time for a change.

    1. It didn’t require a clean up like I initially thought.
    2. Which still needs to be created..
  3. The Summer Destination For Good Times

    Written by Randi on July 11th, 2014 at 3:48 PM // Category: Sponsored

    This is a Sponsored post written by me on behalf of Bahama Breeze for SocialSpark. All opinions are 100% mine.

    Are you looking for something fun to do this summer? Do you need an adult night, away from the kids or are you looking for something new to try with the whole family? Why not visit a Bahama Breeze this summer and have a good time.

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    Bahama Breeze is a restaurant with so many Caribbean-inspired foods, delicious tropical fruity drinks, and a wonderful island atmosphere. Bahama Breeze is the summer destination for good times. There is so much going on this summer at Bahama Breeze. They have a new event called Bahama Breeze Summer Beach Bash. So, grab your friends and take a trip to the destination of the the summer. You and your pals can escape all the stress of real life and party with good music and all the fruity drinks you can stand. 

    The Summer Beach Bash starts 6/23 and ends 8/3. You can listen and dance to live music that features the sounds of the Islands and try their brand new signature cocktail, the Bahama Breeze Ultimate Pineapple, a frozen drink served in fresh cut pineapple. On Saturdays during the event, they have a mojito bar where you can choose your favorite fruits and delicious rum, and watch the bartenders work their magic.

    They even have a contest going this year. Are you a selfie master? If you attend the Summer Beach Bash, you can display your selfie skills and enter the #MyBBSelfie Instagram contest for a chance to win Bahama Breeze gift cards and swag!

    Go with your friends or take the whole family and have a terrific night with an authentic island feel. Remember, the party is already started and only goes until August 8th. So hurry up before it’s too late! You don’t want to miss out on the event of the summer.

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  4. A Wasted Gift

    Written by Randi on July 10th, 2014 at 10:53 PM // Category: Friends

    I lost a really good friend today. Even though my stomach is in knots and my heart is broken, I know that this is way less painful than standing by and watching him inevitably kill himself.

    An addict will always be an addict but when you’re given a second chance with a gift that is hard to come by, you need to take that seriously. You’re essentially spitting in the face of the person and their family who has helped keep you alive. They are the reason you are here today. You should be grateful. I’m sorry that you’re not. 

  5. Goodbye, randidotjpeg.com

    Written by Randi on July 9th, 2014 at 3:16 PM // Category: Design

    It’s gone. It expired this morning. If you hadn’t noticed, I took the blog down because I was (eventually) going to start a portfolio site. I was losing interest in the name, though. 

    Well, lack of funds (this week anyway, since I kept putting it off) pushed my hand at getting a new domain. I already have one in mind but will start working in the meantime to make myself earn it.

    I have to get my design career off the ground. I’ve pushed it off long enough and really, we need the money. I have to work out the details, like contracts, fees, estimates, time frames, etc but once I do, I’m going to be looking for people interested in buying discounted design work to build my portfolio.

    I have a job lined up but if I spend my life waiting on them, I’ll never get anywhere. My best bet is to start finding my way in the meantime. That starts with getting a handle on HTML5, also.

    I am rebranding myself but also reinventing myself. Hello, new me.

  6. Wordless Wednesday: Meet Loki

    Written by Randi on July 2nd, 2014 at 11:57 PM // Category: Uncategorized

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    This is Loki, our rescue kitten and newest addition.

  7. A Little Scare

    Written by Randi on July 2nd, 2014 at 1:41 PM // Category: Family

    We had a scare with Hannah yesterday and rushed her to the vet. She was vomiting and couldn’t even keep water down, had bloody diarrhea, and was very lethargic. However, it didn’t happen in that order. By the time, the bloody diarrhea started, it went quickly from, “okay, we have to watch her” to calling my mom in tears to take me to the vet.

    I didn’t know what was wrong but I immediately assumed it was the heat. I tossed her in the sink to cool her down and she started to perk up but the bloody diarrhea scared me and we drove to Carbondale. Carbondale is out of the way by like 30 minutes but they have a great animal clinic. It wouldn’t be feasible in an emergency but we weren’t at that point yet.

    They immediately thought parvo since Hannah only got her initial vaccinations and Mya was a new addition. Apparently, she had the symptoms. Thankfully, that came back negative. So, they think it was the heat, too.

    She did, however, get her booster for her distemperment and her rabies so now we can take her to the groomer to get her fur cut for the summer. They say you aren’t supposed to cut the hair of long haired dogs but my vet said it was a good idea. I did it last year so she hasn’t had to deal with hot temperatures with her long hair.

    Despite being tired all day yesterday, Hannah weaseled herself up to our pillows last night (in our air conditioned room) and slept well. This morning I leaned over to ask her how she was and she licked all over my face. She’s now up and running around with her daddy and sissy.

    She’s still getting special treatment, though, since she was given medication. She got a tasty treat (concoction) of tuna (and ALL THE MEDS!) while all the animals (even the cats) looked on.

    My mom knows how important my animals are to me. Every single one is my child. I called my mom in tears (trying to hold them back because the situation wasn’t as bad as I was making it seem) and she flew from our farther Walmart and was here in less than 6 minutes. Thank god for my mother because I was losing it.

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    Hannah being pillow puppy, this morning.

  8. Amazon Smile

    Written by Randi on June 30th, 2014 at 8:40 PM // Category: Reviews

    Do you do a lot of online shopping? I know I do. My first stop is always Amazon. More often than not, they have unbeatable prices and ship quicker than many online retailers. I love and use Amazon Prime (2 Day Shipping) and I even received my order the next day a few times!

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    If you use Amazon a lot, you will love Amazon Smile. Amazon Smile is the same Amazon you know and love. It’s the same products, prices, and service but with one huge difference. When you purchase your items through Amazon Smile, Amazon donates 0.5% of the price (on eligible products) to a charity or organization of your choice. Every time I purchase something with Amazon Smile, a portion of my money goes to the homeless animals at the Humane Society of Lackawanna County.

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    It may not be a lot of money by the looks of it but it certainly adds up. I want to help the animals anyway that I can and every little bit counts. Just look for the following on your favorite products.

    It doesn’t take much, either. After signing up and setting my charity, whenever I visit Amazon, I am redirected to Amazon Smile and I can continue my shopping.

    Even if you don’t make many purchases, pass along this little tip to someone who does. You can help make a difference.

    I did not receive any compensation or offer for this blog post. All opinions are 100% mine.

  9. Protected: What’s Even Better

    Written by Randi on June 17th, 2014 at 2:17 PM // Category: General

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  10. Oh, Monday

    Written by Randi on June 16th, 2014 at 11:21 PM // Category: General

    We lost power for about 2 1/2 hours just as Andrew was coming home from work. So, I sat in the dark with Andrew, Patrick, Patrick’s girlfriend Missy, and their terrorist dog Mya (heh) and spent some time with my neighbors. Apparently, during construction, something happened, a telephone pole was on fire, and power for the whole city went out. Yay, Scranton!

    In an effort to minimize my boredom, I turned on my DS (really Andrew’s since I never charge mine) to play Animal Crossing and find that my first and incredibly original Olivia left my town. I kind of want to cry. It’s insane to see how attached you get to the virtual furries in your town. Alas, she is not gone forever. I can cycle through 16 villagers (wait for 16 villagers to move in and out) and get her back. It won’t be the same Olivia I had, it’ll be a new one, but at least I’ll have her back. She’s been there since the day I started the game. When I made a new town, I moved her over first. I’m really sad to see her go. I would have rather anyone else leave me.

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    Goodbye, Olivia. You will be missed!

    In addition, I apparently had a “do all the electronic things!” surge go through me when it came back on. I even blogged at 8BitHeart. Maybe I’ll keep this up!

OHAI, I'M RANDI!
I'm Randi, short for RandiLynn. I'm a 20-something design student, furmama, gamer and pokemon master in training from Northeast PA. I've been with my boyfriend, Andrew, for 6 years. I live, eat and sleep HTML & CSS. I spend my time creating pretty web stuff, blogging, gaming, or reading.



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